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As we near the final phases of cuffing season, you may find yourself wondering how you came up short yet again in the dating department. Here are my five tips on how to salvage your cuffing season. As cliché as it sounds, date yourself and fully enjoy your single time! Treat yourself—get dressed up and cute, get your hair and nails done (yes, men, this applies to you too). Shave, get a haircut, buy your favorite perfume or cologne, and take yourself out for a nice steak dinner.
Often, we choose to feel "less than" when we’re without a partner, when in reality, it’s the perfect time to join a travel group, save your money, and get to know yourself better. During the cooler months, snuggles are great, but so is curling up with a warm throw and a good book. The things you believe you’re missing when you’re single are often the very same things you’ll wish you had time for when you’re in a relationship.
Five Things to Do in Chicago This Fall While Single:
1. Participate in a Local Workshop: Look for workshops that match your interests, whether it’s painting, cooking, or crafting. It’s a great way to learn something new and meet like-minded individuals.
2. Attend a Live Performance: Check out local theaters for fall productions, concerts, or comedy shows. Enjoying a night out at a performance can be a fun way to spend an evening alone or with new friends.
3. Try a New Restaurant or Café: Treat yourself to a meal at a new spot you’ve been wanting to try. Fall menus often feature comforting flavors, from pumpkin dishes to hearty soups.
4. Start Writing Your Memoir: Memoirs aren’t just for celebrities—everyone has a story worth telling, and yours is no exception! Take some time this fall to reflect on your experiences and start penning your memoir. It can be a therapeutic and fulfilling project that allows you to explore your life through writing.
5. Explore Farmers' Markets: Chicago has several farmers' markets that run through the fall. Check out the Green City Market or the Logan Square Farmers' Market to sample fresh produce, baked goods, and seasonal treats.
Embrace your singlehood this fall, and make the most of the season in Chicago!